Filters a string of opts out using Shellwords keeping only things related to —config and -c

Returns an array of applications found in the lib dirs

We need to know the config file in order to know the libdir so that we can find applications.

The problem is the CLI might be stuffed with options only the app in the libdir might understand so we have a chicken and egg situation.

We‘re parsing and filtering MCOLLECTIVE_EXTRA_OPTS removing all but config related options and parsing the options looking just for the config file.

We‘re handling failures gracefully and finally restoring the ARG and MCOLLECTIVE_EXTRA_OPTS to the state they were before we started parsing.

This is mostly a hack, when we‘re redoing how config works this stuff should be made less sucky